{"id":2701,"date":"2008-02-12T12:50:58","date_gmt":"2008-02-12T16:50:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/12\/girls-will-be-girls\/"},"modified":"2023-09-07T04:56:08","modified_gmt":"2023-09-07T09:56:08","slug":"girls-will-be-girls","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/12\/girls-will-be-girls\/","title":{"rendered":"Girls Will Be Girls"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A really interesting article on feminism and femininity in the NYT, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2008\/02\/10\/magazine\/10wwln-lede-t.html\">Girls Will Be Girls<\/a>. L&#8217;article rejoint des id&eacute;es que j&#8217;ai d&eacute;j&agrave; exprim&eacute;es dans mon entr&eacute;e <a href=\"http:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/2007\/03\/08\/adieu-madonna\/\"><i>Adieu Madonna<\/i><\/a>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i>(&#8230;) Each book (the article points to 2 books) reflects a different vision of feminism, femininity and girlhood, but at its heart is a desire &mdash; or perhaps the fervent hope &mdash; for girls to have it both ways: to be able to paint their nails and break them too; <b>to embrace whatever it might be that makes them girls in a way that will sustain rather than constrain them<\/b>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<blockquote><p>For decades now, girls have been told that &ldquo;you can do anything.&rdquo; &ldquo;How to Be the Best at Everything,&rdquo; originally published in England, might as well add &ldquo; . . . in heels and lipstick.&rdquo; It promises lessons on how to &ldquo;act like a celebrity,&rdquo; &ldquo;make your own luxury bubble bath&rdquo; and &ldquo;give yourself a perfect manicure.&rdquo; <b>This is the &ldquo;I am woman, see me shop&rdquo; strain of feminism<\/b>, the one that&rsquo;s given rise to mother-daughter spa packages and endless reruns of &ldquo;Sex and the City.&rdquo; <b>Perhaps the shift from purchasing power to purchase empowerment was inevitable: once marriage and motherhood ceased to be the bulwarks of female identity, what remained to distinguish us from men beyond our God-given ability to accessorize?<\/b><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Also interesting to see that we are all, men and woman, stuck into our society&#8217;s stereotypes&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i>Whether girlie or girlist, girls, because they&rsquo;re allowed more latitude in their identities, can still be girls: <b>Boys, on the other hand, must be boys &mdash; unless no one is watching. In another study of younger children, Cherney and London found that if ushered alone into a room and told they could play with anything, nearly half the boys chose &ldquo;feminine&rdquo; toys as often as &ldquo;masculine&rdquo; ones, provided they believed nobody, especially their fathers, would find out<\/b>.<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Via <a href=\"http:\/\/www.caterina.net\/\">Caterina<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A really interesting article on feminism and femininity in the NYT, Girls Will Be Girls. L&#8217;article rejoint des id&eacute;es que j&#8217;ai d&eacute;j&agrave; exprim&eacute;es dans mon entr&eacute;e Adieu Madonna: (&#8230;) Each book (the article points to 2 books) reflects a different vision of feminism, femininity and girlhood, but at its heart is a desire &mdash; or&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/2008\/02\/12\/girls-will-be-girls\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Girls Will Be Girls<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2701"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8303,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2701\/revisions\/8303"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2701"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2701"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mcturgeon.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2701"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}